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When you like
someone, and you think
they might like you too,
but you’re not sure, it’s
not always best to put
your hand over your heart and tell them
how you feel. In fact, it rarely ever is. But there are ways to
drop hints and open the
door for them, so that if
they are interested,
they’re more likely to
start showing it. Here are 50. 1. Touch your face and
hair when you’re
talking to them. 2. Touch them, casually,
on the arm or knee
when you’re talking to
them. 3. Laugh at their jokes. 4. Touch their arm or
knee when you laugh at
their jokes. 5. Notice when their
glass is empty, and
always offer to fill it up
or get them another. 6. Make eye contact
from across the room at
parties; smile. 7. If you get an inside
joke going between
just the two of you,
bring it up as much as
possible. Never let it
die. 8. Say their name when
you’re talking to them.
(It’s true! People thrill
at the sound of their
own name — especially
when uttered by someone they’re
interested in.) 9. Find a common
enemy: another party
guest, an annoying guy
at the bar, a broken
jukebox, the lack of
pizza joints in this part of town. It’s you two
against the world. 10. If they mention an
ex, or a date gone bad,
tell them that they’re
too good for that
person, anyway. 11. Give them a
ridiculously huge tip.
(This only works if
they’re your waiter,
bartender or barista.
Obviously.) 12. Email them because
you just saw something
and it “m*de me think
of you.” 13. Treat them to
something sometime. 14. Make up a nickname
for them. Be the only
one who calls them
that. 15. Invent any excuse
for them to come over
— a new movie, a
sports game, a dinner
party, a home repair
project you really need help with. 16. Be genuinely
delighted every time
you see them — make
no effort to hide it. 17. Loan them a book
that you “just thought
they would like.” 18. Offer to hold their
purse/bag/coat/cup. 19. MIX TAPE! (No one
makes a mix tape/cd
for you unless they like
you.) 20. Make sure to get
pictures of the two of
you when you’re out
together. 21. Handwrite a note
on your business card
when you give it to
them. i.e. “Really good
to meet you.” 22. Remember what
their drink is without
having to ask. Order it
for them. 23. Show up to their art
opening/soccer game/
open mic night/thing. 24. Don’t leave without
saying goodbye. 25. That shirt/perfume/
ring/pair of shoes they
once mentioned they
liked? Wear it. A lot. 26. Remember what
you talked about the
last time you saw each
other, and ask them
how things turned out
the next time you see each other. 27. If they take your
hand, squeeze it or run
your thumb over their
knuckles 28. Text them. Not just
to make plans, but just
because. 29. Dress up a little
when you know you’re
going to see them. 30. Bring up something
little that you
remember they once
said to you. 31. Offer to drive them
to the airport. 32. Just talk to them.
About anything.
Whenever you get the
chance. 33. Check out that TV
show/movie/band/
restaurant they
mentioned. Tell them
what you thought of it. 34. Compliment them
on something you think
other people might
notice about them. 35. Pass them a note
during class/a meeting/
at a crowded bar. 36. Find whatever
excuse you possibly can
for the two of you to
end up at a karaoke bar.
Insist on singing a duet. 37. Always “randomly”
have an extra ticket .
(To “this movie,” “this
art thing,” “my friend’s
band that’s playing,”
“this lecture that seemed cool.”) 38. Ask their opinion on
things. (“What color
should I paint my
bathroom?” “What TV
show should I watch
next on Netflix?”) 39. “Like” their stuff on
Facebook. (Not too
much — just enough to
let them know you’re
reading.) 40. Text back right
away. 41. Make friends with
their friends. 42. Tell them, as off-
handedly as you can,
that they smell good
today. 43. Send them a
postcard when you’re
away. 44. Give them your
number, so you can
take the conversation
off email/Facebook/
Twitter. 45. Assume they want
coffee and bring them
one. Learn how they
take it first. 46. Post baby animal
videos on their
Facebook wall. 47. Remember their
birthday. 48. Find a reasonable
excuse (birthday,
promotion at work)
and send them flowers. 49. Send them YouTube
links to that band they
mentioned they liked,
or send them links to
new bands that you
think they’d like. 50. Kiss them on the
cheek and hug them
goodbye, instead of just
saying it. By Frank(USA)